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Posted on Jul 10, 2014

Use SYNERGY to Promote Synergy in Marriage

Use-some-SYNERGY-to-develop-synergy-in-marriageWhen a man and woman get married, there is often a reference to the Biblical statement: “…and two shall become one.” [Matthew 19:5]

This makes it sound easy for a husband and wife to work well together. Yet, experience would suggest this takes much effort, time, and lots of practice.

In a healthy marriage there is good synergy. This is a powerful value that can make a big difference.

Synergy in marriage means a husband and wife can accomplish more together than they could separately. And as this does not come naturally to most couples, a few tips to foster it might be helpful.

Here are 7 that fit the acronym SYNERGY.

SYNERGY that Promotes Synergy

  • Simplicity. Keep things simple. Be clear on your goals; then define your roles. Know who is responsible for what and how you will each contribute in achieving your goals.
  • Yearning. Foster the desire to win together. Ensure your priorities are focused on your joint needs as a couple. Recognize the power of a joint vow. Say it out loud “We are one team!”
  • Nimbleness. Be flexible while moving things forward. If your spouse appears to be dropping the ball, don’t stand there and criticize. Pick up the slack and keep the momentum going.
  • Empowerment. Encourage your spouse to maximize their talents and abilities. Empowerment builds confidence and promotes innovative behavior that benefits you both.
  • Respect. Openly admire and esteem your spouse. It’s important to always be courteous, especially in the areas where your spouse is leading.
  • Gratitude. Show that you value the contributions of your spouse. Go beyond recognizing what they’ve simply done. Appreciate them for who they are and the importance of their presence.
  • Youthfulness. Be vigorous about keeping your relationship fresh. Promote a joyful spirit in all you do together. Keep falling in love, over and over again.

When a husband and wife embrace the elements of SYNERGY, then two truly become one, and they can accomplish more together than they ever dreamed possible!

 

What are some benefits that you have experienced of synergy in marriage?

 

Today’s value was selected from the “Enthusiasm-Teamwork” category, based on the e-book Developing Your Differentiating Value.