Every marriage has its trials and tests, some more difficult than others. Strong marriages possess certain qualities to help them get through these tough times. One of those qualities is the value of assurance. Lori and I recently spent some time with a couple that have an amazing life story. This year they are married…
For most of us, we tend to react to challenges. They are something that happens “to” us, and then we respond. A car accident. A computer failure. An employee quits. A client leaves. A kid sick. Whew! That’s tough stuff. Then add in the challenges of your spouse and it becomes too much. But… Is…
Rarely does one set out to become great. In most cases, those who seek greatness fall short of leaving a lasting legacy. But for a few, greatness is awarded for a lifetime of dedication that made a significant difference in the lives of others. As a differentiating value, Greatness means remarkable; of major significance or…
Do you remember when your heart skipped a beat at the thought of going out on a date with the love of your life? Or remember as a child looking at the Christmas tree with the sea of presents underneath, and you were bursting with curiosity? Maybe you’ve had the opportunity to stand at the…
Of all the married couples Lori and I admire, there is one that really stands out. Peter & Donna Knoblauch have been very good friends of ours for many years. They live in Ontario, Canada and are celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary this summer. On the surface all looks normal. Two grown children who just…
Today is National Day of Prayer in the United States. People of different faiths are called to pray for the nation and its leaders. Who plays a leadership role in your home? Are you praying for them too? Unfortunately, some homes mirror the political tension that consumes America today. Husbands and wives are more caught…
I had the privilege of spending this week with a couple that I greatly admire and love. Permit me to introduce you to Charles and Mary Ferguson. My parents. There are many people that admire my parents. My sister and I are two of them, along with our respective families. Some look at their life…
There’ a famous line from the Disney movie Bambi, where the little rabbit, Thumper, explains what his mother taught him: “If you can’t say something nice, then don’t say anything at all.” Good advice for those that naturally say the wrong things. Another way to look at this would be to purposefully look for something…
Insightful. Compassionate. Influential. Accomplished. These are commonly referenced values used to describe Ken and Marjorie Blanchard. Dr. Ken Blanchard is an icon in the fields of leadership and management training. A world-renowned keynote speaker, co-author of over 30 books – including the bestseller “The One Minute Manager” – Blanchard is also the co-founder of an…
Certain facts are easily accepted in life. The sun comes up every morning. Babies cry when they’re hungry. It’s just the way God made things. But when it comes to our relationships with other people – especially our spouse – our willingness to accept things the way they are quickly disappears. Consider these common spousal…
I write about differentiating values and their impact on leadership, marketing, and marriage - focused on couples in business together. Read more about Robert.
