Values Quotes – William Goldman on Fairness

Today’s quote is from William Goldman, an American novelist, playwright and screenwriter. He wrote both the book and screenplay for one of my all-time favorite movies: The Princess Bride.

One of the many great quotes that Goldman wrote for this movie is:
“Who says life is fair, where is that written?”

Even though this is a fun, fictional story, the concept of fairness – or lack thereof – is highlighted everywhere. What Goldman was poking fun at is a basic truth that we all tend to forget: life is not fair.

As a differentiating value, Fairness means ability to make judgments free from discrimination or dishonesty.

Note that fairness has nothing to do with equality, or making people happy, or even achieving what we believe is right.

Rather, fairness is about a process not an outcome.

If we can create an environment that is free of discrimination or dishonesty, then our judgments will be fair. Does that mean everyone will like our decisions? No. Does that mean some will see us as unfair? Yes. That’s life.

If you’re struggling with being fair, consider carefully if you’re trying to please everyone – or simply make good decisions that are free from discrimination or dishonesty.

And once you have made a decision, move forward with confidence. Don’t worry what others think. That’s what makes for great movies – and a great life!

 

Today’s value was selected from the “Fairness-Respect” category, based on the e-book Developing Your Differentiating Value.